Innovation does not mean demoralization.
West is the golden standard and should be adopted with enthusiasm, consequently accepted by everyone because it is a synonym of innovation. When western pioneers discuss being enlightened they mean how well the Muslim World accepted the advanced western lifestyle. That implies, to be cultivated you ought to have not only a customary wired phone but rather a remote/PDA, TV, autos, PCs and different amenities of the western present day life. You also need to copy western lifestyle.
On the highest priority on that curtail comes ladies’ freedom. That is, if ladies in your way of life are not ‘free’ you should ‘harass’ your females, and you are graceless! Nicolas Sarkozy is the example of ‘refined’ and ‘humanized’ French society.
Sarkozy is hitched, in the event that I am not mixed up his third time, to Carla Bruni, an artist who is more known for displaying her bare body than her voice. Along these lines, as you can figure: hijab and Muslim shroud, worn by numerous conventional Muslim ladies, are unsuitable in that ‘liberated’ nation. If you don’t want to expose your kids to sex too early, they need to go to sleep early. Because after 9 transgression and indecency, where now and again you can’t separate a genuine government official from low maintenance pimp and a whore.
Think about TV. It has both positive and negative sides. There is almost certainly that it enables us to find out about our planet and cosmic system. A worker in Lalmonirhat in Bangladesh would now be able to look at life in Louisiana, USA – situated on the opposite side of the globe while never sailing or flying over there. However, news, history, geology, wellbeing and science are not by any means the only things appeared on TV. Rarely do we understand that with TV, we have brought savagery and sex into our family rooms, and not the sort of things relatives can observe together in a similar room! Simply turn on any significant direct in the USA between 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. You will see cleanser musical dramas about useless families where everybody is related – spouse swindling his significant other and the other way around, not to mention the unmarried folks and ladies whose chatter appears to be all about sex.
In this culture of advancement regularly it is the huge and little screen performers that turn into the good examples to duplicate. The things that they wear turn into our design and style. We are not stunned any more to discover that most Hollywood performers live indecent lives; they are into medications and sex. Separation and sex outrage are fairly basic aspects of life in the Hollywood.
What if girls in the bay area had formulated their own high standards and when his Tinder date offers them “netflix and chill”, they would say no, thank you. And it does not become regular one night stand. That is the thing that genuine human advancement is about: where every individual from the general public does consistent little demonstrations of moral values without expecting acknowledgment or criticism. Doubtlessly, a general public can talk about human advancement can brag about innovation where impropriety, sex, mishandle and rape are within society.
Symptom of western fever in muslim women.
“I don’t care, I need to complete school, I won’t stop until I complete my training.”
The above is a statement from a youthful Muslim lady seeking after what she calls her “instruction.” Unfortunately, her solid devotion to completing the Western undergrad and graduate college “training” framework mirrors the regularly developing pattern among youthful Muslims in this general public: to hold up forces her “degree” before engaging in the possibility of marriage. What is much more despondent is the way that these youthful Muslims’ folks mirror the same ailing belief system.
Some way or another, the Western arrangement of “instruction” has supplanted Islam as the focal need in Muslims’ lives. This visually impaired devotion of getting a degree is so imbued in the Muslim family that if a girl herself is occupied with marriage, the guardians will deny the marriage exclusively in the fact that she should complete school. In this manner, marriage has for all intents and purposes turn into a terrible word in a few Muslim circles if that word “marriage” is at all associated with the marriage of a “little girl” who has not completed “school,” i.e. “school.”
Each general public has an establishment, and that establishment is the family. And often we prioritize getting Western higher educations over building up the establishment for an Islamic culture, what does this say for the eventual fate of our ummah? Moreover, what does it say in regards to our claim that we are undoubtedly Muslims? It’s implied that there is advantage to holding a professional education, however when weighed against the advantage of marriage, which is half of our religion, marriage exceeds it. Consequently, when we see that in the hearts and psyches of Muslims the advantages or “earnestness” of a college degree exceeds marriage, there is something truly wrong in our reasoning.
Despite the fact that, at first glance, the issue of instruction versus marriage appears to be perplexing, the clarification for this wonder is very basic: our fundamental qualities lie not in the akhira (Hereafter) but rather in the dunya (wordly life). At whatever point we are given a request from Allah or His Messenger (i.e. marriage), we satisfy that request just in to such an extent as it doesn’t keep us from achieving the sparkle of the dunya.
Another wonder predominant in our ummah that is debilitating the establishment of our Islamic culture (family) and fills in as a ground to defer marriage is Muslims’ regularly developing interest with a sequential number connected to every individual since that individual happened to be conceived on a specific day in a specific year, usually named “age.” Somehow, we have disguised the Western meaning of “adolescence” and “adulthood” to such an extent that we as often as possible allude to our young grown-up offspring of eligible age as “kids” or “excessively youthful, producing rumors and propaganda about childhood marriage. Both the marking of grown-ups as “youngsters” and the reason that grown-ups are “excessively youthful, making it impossible to wed are marvels that are new to Islam as well as are creations of the cutting edge age when all is said in done.
How Usama container Zaid drove an armed force in his youngsters, and how we had “high school”. Similarly as we take after the general population of the world into the “reptile opening” of “instruction,” we look after our advanced instructors (who have supplanted the Prophet). What’s more, similarly as holding a professional education has turned into the absolute most critical achievement of the youthful Muslim and her family, so has age turned into the most huge determinant of regardless of her readiness to be married.
The question is, what do we do about it? To start with, we should recover our Islamic character and reconsider our motivation on this planet. When we do this truly, we will find that our motivation here is exceptionally clear: to set up Islam in our lives and after that on the planet on the loose. Everything else, for example, going to a neighborhood college and getting an advanced education, falls under the class of “adornments,” i.e. “a bit much.” Thus, when a Muslim is looked with the possibility of marriage, which falls under the classification of “setting up Islam,” there ought to be no delay, and any desired”accessory” ought to be sought after just in so far as Islam is sought after.
The advantages of wedding are colossal, and those advantages increment when marriage happens as soon as possible. Guarding the virtue of our childhood and empowering the introduction of a few youngsters for the development of this ummah [not to say the reality the marriage makes a perfect situation for man and lady to build their odds of entering Paradise and satisfy half of their religion] are not kidding benefits that Muslim guardians and youth need to reexamine. Give us a chance to recover Islam for ourselves and offer it with the world, and let us begin in the home by empowering young fellows and young ladies to wed. Give us a chance to rethink “training” and “adulthood” in view of Qur’an and Sunnah. Also, may Allah favor us to satisfy Him while we are on this planet through setting up Islam in each part of our lives decisively, and may we achieve Paradise, our objective.
The Elegance of the Modest Woman
When I was young and stupid I used to think “Why do they wear those things anyway?” … “I feel sorry for them” … and so on.
As they exited the restaurant, we noticed a mixed collection of the following: skin tight pants, short skirts, exposed midriffs, push-up bras, high heels, jewelry, see-through or plunging tops, piercings, lipstick and makeup, and one had breast implants for sure. We observed the two Muslim women as they were engaged in close conversation over coffee.
Their graceful features complimented their dark headscarves and warm eyes. Their natural gestures were flirty without even trying – revealing natural beauty. And their clothes, while conservative, brought forth the hidden potential of something wonderful and truly feminine.
The idea of dressing modestly terrifies some western women – but why? Perhaps it would trample their “right” to show off. Would their self-esteem fall along with their hemlines?
After some debates, we identified the cost of the western “right” to flaunt. The Muslim women were free from the fashion trap -free to “just be” without posing, comparing, dieting and spending for the approval of men and each other. And they looked more desirable to us than the exhibitionists who were in the restaurant and parading on the sidewalk.
The sexual displays in Western culture are so mainstream and competitive that modesty is seen as regressive. Yet, long term, when a man looks past the right pants and heels, he will ultimately detect not confidence, but a certain unattractive desperation.
Modest women don’t have that desperation – they don’t compete in the arena of vanity. They have themselves – and that’s the kind of attraction with legs to last the long run. Remember that the next time you feel sorry for a Muslim woman.
Western Women – doing along with the trend of amorality.
Conception prevention was out of a lady’s hands in the early twentieth century. It was restricted by the law — for all married couples. It was unheard of for a woman to engage in sexual relations without the possibility of pregnancy and she was viewed as “conflicting with the laws of God.” If a lady tried to end an undesirable pregnancy, her typical option was either a risky, self-instigated premature birth or one performed in unsanitary conditions by somebody who had limited information. And those were strict and lawful disciplines for such women.
In 2012, we consider contraception to be our right. We can appreciate sex without stressing over pregnancy being an outcome, pregnancies can be arranged and laws securing a lady’s rights concerning her own particular body are still set up in many states. A protected medicinal premature birth is lawful.
In 1912, sex outside of marriage was considered wicked and just for “ladies of free ethics.” Marriage was viewed as consecrated and a separated lady from society. Numerous ladies lived in hopeless and harsh relational unions just because they feared to be blamed for separation. Blame wasn’t the main reason a lady remained married. Legitimately she didn’t possess anything and had next to no rights; no property, no cash of her own with the exception of what she was given by her significant other and no say over the destiny of her own children. In extraordinary cases, a lady’s ex could verify that she never took a good care of her kids.
Today Separation isn’t unethical, we’re unquestionably not scolded by being separated and we have rights that incorporate owing property, joint care for kids and acquiring our own particular cash in a variety of professional fields. Life is Gatsby!Buy me a coffee