Loneliness is a bigger problem for more people today than at any previous time in history. The truly ironic fact about loneliness is that if you are lonely, you are not alone! Still, even if you have been lonely in the past, and even if you feel lonely today, it is possible to make new friends in this modern world. If you have been suffering from loneliness, it’s time to stop blaming yourself, and it’s time to stop blaming the rest of the world. It’s time to do something to solve the problem of loneliness.
Manual labor became women’s fate.
Working hard is rather an acquired habit than a natural tendency of people; and women seemed to adopt enthusiastically “steady job” mentality without rejections and questioning. The busy bee, the builder-beaver, the ant – she was never lazy. At the dawn of capitalism, industrial revolution and technological progress people knew that labor was natural state to a man and the main question was how to give men enough work (you probably thinking). No. The original problem was how to make men work.
Are you ready to get back home?
In the previous article we learned that this world has two halves – male and female.
Modern society became so atomized that each of these halves considers themselves self-sufficient, independent from each other. But these two worlds cannot exist without each other.
For several decades, women have been taught to act and think like a man. They declared – women are equal to men! As a result of new paradigm men began to rule the world and dictate their rules. Both men and women now have to play by male’s rules. The rules of the female half of the world were just forgotten. There was a confusion. Men and women assembled in the male half of the world and began to fight for the place under the sun.
The female half of the world was left almost uninhabited.
Several generations have changed, and people have forgotten about the loss. They began to believe that the world is very small. In this small world, men and women started feeling lonely and sad for no obvious reason. That happened because the knowledge about the soul and true love have been lost on the other half. The male half of the world is now densely populated, while female half of the world has only a few happy inhabitants.
Since ancient times, a woman was a guardian of the heart and the soul of her husband. Thanks to her his soul could sing. The woman herself was the SOUL of this world and the universe. Women knew a lot back then before the loss…Now, because of the overload of the male part and the small population of female one – the world became unbalanced.
Women still want love and happiness, but don’t know how awaken the man’s soul. So they apply male methods.
Everything is messed up.
Who are we – women living on this planet?
Mothers, miners, warriors, beauties, tender and affectionate, loving and loved, lonely and desperate, confident about their own unattractiveness. Women are simply throwing out of their heads the female thoughts. This list can go on without the end.
Modern society hung so many duties on our fragile shoulders. We became tough, put on the armor and try to survive at any cost.
Who did we become? What is the price?
What roles are now successfully performed by us? Isn’t it too expensive price to pay for being strong and omniscient women who are able to provide not only for herself, but also for grown up children and even for the husband?.. Many women now earn more than their husbands. Need a vacation? No problem! Your woman can take out the whole family for a retreat. Another question is, are they able replenish their energy levels and finally get some rest?The price we pay is sometimes too high.I have often meet women who are tired of life, of heavy workload. Hunched over, looking down to the ground, she took on the worries about the whole family, forgetting about rest and other joys of life. Under this unbearable weight they are not interested in personal life, their main goal is the survival of the family.
First, they live to raise children.
Then – to look after elderly parents.
Then – in order to “raise” the grandchildren and give them what they were deprived of. Between all of this, women manage to work, build a career, and study a lot. For what?
In the beginning of the life journey they still hope and dream for happiness and love. Then later on they understand that life has passed and it is foolish to dream about prince and life in his mansion. Her life was tough – what makes you think that her daughter’s life will be a fairy tail. Most likely not! That is why the mother is preparing her daughter to be a fighter, to be self reliant, independent very early in life. Many modern women go through the main years of life carrying the proud title – single moms. While serving others, some women suddenly hear sharp and bitter words.
– I’m tired of you…
What is on this side?
For more than 20 years, the traditional principle of masculinity and femininity has worn down and been ridiculed, disconcerting both men and women. The revision of “obsolete” patterns of behavior has even introduced some sort of awkwardness into the relationship between the sexes. Should a man get up when a woman enters the room? Will he please her by opening the door? Should he cede his place in a crowded bus or subway? Have all these rules changed? Is there something predictable and definite in the new order?
Traditional gender roles in society are dead?
Before the advent of the 21st century, it seemed that only technologies would evolve in the world of the future. Even after seeing the sixth iPhone, we still continue putting boys in blue, and girls – in pink, and when they grow up – expect from them “male” and “female” deeds. Nevertheless, there is a slow, but steady process of revising the established standards and connections has begun. We talk a lot about the perception of corporeality, the search for harmony with ourselves, and also how important it is learn to accept and love the diversity and uniqueness of people in a multicultural global reality. However, this process is impossible without understanding how the existing models of relations have developed, how our minds have fixed the notion of “right” or “traditional” and why changes are unavoidable. We begin a big discussion about gender roles in our society – the social perception of sex – and what is happening in the modern world with the notion of “man” and “woman.”